Come out of this affair stronger and more secure than ever.
AFFAIR REPAIR
INTENSIVE
Four focused, compassionate hours to rebuild safety and create a plan to heal—together. Most couples can start within 1–2 weeks, in Hopkins, MN (Minneapolis area) or virtually.
If you’re here, you may be in the hardest season your relationship has ever faced.
If you’re the betrayed partner, your mind may not stop spinning. You replay details, search for what you missed, and wake up with questions you can’t put down. That isn’t you being “too much”—it’s your brain doing exactly what it’s supposed to do after a deep hurt.
If you’re the betraying partner, you may be carrying heavy guilt. You want to make this right, but every attempt to help seems to land wrong, and you’re not sure what your partner actually needs from you.
Together, you keep having the same painful conversation and getting nowhere. And when you try to set it aside, it doesn’t feel any better.
Here’s what I want you to know: this is not a sign your relationship is over. It’s a sign you need a clear, safe path forward—and someone steady to walk it with you. There are proven tools to help couples heal from betrayal and come out the other side closer and more connected than ever before.
And you don’t have to wait. When you’ve just found out about an affair, every day can feel unbearable. I keep intensive time open on Tuesdays and Fridays, so most couples can get in within one to two weeks. Send me a message to schedule soon.
How your four hour intensive feels
Where are you, and what do you need? We slow things down. I’ll get to know both of you, understand where your relationship is right now, and help you name what you each most need from our time together.
Hour 1 · Together
The full picture. I meet with each of you one-on-one—a private, judgment-free space to say what feels too hard to say in front of each other, process what happened, and get clear on what you need to move forward.
Hours 2 & 3 · Individually
Your plan forward. We come back together and map out clear, concrete steps for rebuilding trust and safety. You’ll leave with specific next steps and homework—knowing exactly what to do next, and how to do it as a team.
Hour 4 · Together
Healing happens in a specific order. We’ll find where you are—and take the next step together.
You’ll leave your intensive with:
Clarity on where your relationship stands and what each of you needs
A shared understanding of the road ahead, so you’re no longer guessing
Clear, concrete next steps and homework to practice at home
A recommendation for what comes next—whether that’s another intensive or ongoing couples therapy
Hope that’s grounded in an actual plan
Investment: $1,600 for the full 4-hour intensive.
In my work with couples after betrayal, I’ve seen the same path lead to real healing again and again. Many couples get stuck because they try to skip ahead to “why did this happen?” before the betrayed partner feels safe. Your intensive is designed around that path:
Get everything on the table. Honest, calm answers to the questions that keep the betrayed partner’s mind spinning—without hiding details that will break trust again later.
Restore a sense of safety. Practical, specific agreements that help the betrayed partner’s brain begin to trust that the betrayal is no longer happening.
Understand why—and prevent it from happening again. Once safety is rebuilt, we look inward at what led here so you can build a stronger, more secure bond than before.
Hi, I’m Mallory.
I’m a Licensed Marriage & Family Therapist and Certified Emotionally Focused Couples Therapist with advanced training in affair repair through Healing Broken Bonds, an Emotionally Focused approach to healing after betrayal.
I’ve spent nearly a decade working with couples, and I’ve helped dozens work through betrayal. Many of them now say they’re grateful they went through it together—because it drew them closer.
In our time together, you can expect a calm, steady guide who won’t take sides, won’t rush you, and will hold space for both of your hurts. I can’t wait to walk alongside you as you heal.
Questions couples often ask
Still wondering if an intensive is right for you? You’re welcome to send me a question before you book—there’s no pressure, just a chance to make sure it’s a good fit.
Affair recovery counseling in Minneapolis & across Minnesota
Whether you’re healing from a physical affair, an emotional affair, or another kind of infidelity, I offer affair repair intensives in person at my Hopkins office—serving Minneapolis, St. Paul, Minnetonka, Edina, Wayzata, St. Louis Park, and Eden Prairie—and virtually for couples anywhere in Minnesota.
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Couples who have recently discovered or disclosed an affair—physical, emotional, or another kind of betrayal—and who both want to explore healing. You don’t have to have it all figured out. You just both need to be willing to show up.
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That’s okay—and it’s more common than you might think. Many couples come in unsure. Your intensive is a space to slow down, understand what happened, and make decisions from a place of clarity instead of crisis.
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When you’re in the aftermath of an affair, waiting a week between sessions can feel unbearable. An intensive gives you focused, uninterrupted time to make meaningful progress—the kind that can take several weeks in a traditional format—so you can stop spinning and start healing sooner.
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Usually within one to two weeks. I know that when you’ve just discovered an affair, waiting feels impossible—so I keep intensive time open on Tuesdays and Fridays to get couples in quickly. Intensives happen in person at my office in Hopkins, Minnesota, just west of Minneapolis and an easy drive from St. Paul, Minnetonka, Edina, Wayzata, St. Louis Park, and Eden Prairie, or virtually for couples anywhere in Minnesota.
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We’ll look at your progress together and decide on the best next step—whether that’s a follow-up intensive, ongoing weekly couples therapy, or a plan you feel confident carrying forward on your own. You won’t be left wondering what to do next.
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The Affair Repair Intensive is $1,600 for the full four hours. That includes our time together as a couple, individual time with each partner, and a closing session where we map out clear, concrete next steps and homework for you to practice at home. If you have questions before you book, you’re always welcome to reach out.
You don’t have to carry this alone.
Repairing after an affair is hard. But I’ve seen many couples do it—and come out the other side stronger and more secure than ever before. You don’t need to have it all figured out to reach out. You just need to take the first step.
Book your intensive today—most couples can be seen within one to two weeks, on a Tuesday or Friday.